My husband and I have been married a little over three years now. And very happy together. But there is something missing ... babies. Now, granted three years is not exactly a long time, however we got married when we were both 29 ... my eggs aren't getting any fresher! Seriously, though, we are not young ones just starting out; we have lived our 20s. We have played ... plenty. We have done the school thing. We have good jobs. We own our home. And we want a family. Unfortunately, just wanting something does not mean you get it. And contrary to popular belief: being ready to have a family and doing what needs to be done to get one does not mean the baby automatically comes. They should tell you that when you're younger.
Instead every month I have my moment of disappointment. And some moments last longer than others. And it's hard. I really want to be a mama. And we really believe and feel strongly that this will happen for us. Sometimes you just have to wait longer for the more awesome things in your life - I was 29 when I got married. And the wait was well worth it! I hit the jackpot with my other half. He is amazing. And he deserves to be a dad.Perhaps soon it's our time. And hopefully soon it's our turn!
Most definetly. I think you will both be such amazing parents. When that moment finally comes your child will be so blessed. Patience is not a virtue that I have, yet I know when you hold your new baby in your arms it will be worth it. Trials like these come upon those with strong spirits, hang in there.
ReplyDeleteThat's rough. I wish you the best of luck and pray for your happiness.
ReplyDeleteI think that it is interesting how life seems to do this to us. I hope and pray that things will work out for you both because I think you will be great parents.
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